The STOPLight

Volume 7, Number 1
May 1996
© Copyright 2003 Adults Saving Kids

My human rights

My assertive human rights:

  1. I have the right to have feelings and to express them. I don't have to justify them or apologize for them.
  2. I have the right to judge my own behavior, thoughts, and emotions and I take responsibility for them.
  3. I have the right to be treated with respect and to be listened to seriously.
  4. I have the right to be imperfect. Being imperfect does not make me worthless.
    • I have the right to change my mind.
    • I have the right to say, "I don't know" and "I don't understand."
    • I have the right to make illogical decisions.
    • I have the right to make both little and big mistakes and to take responsibility for them.
    • I am unable to do everything.
    • I am unable to solve everybody's problems.
    • I can't please all people at all times.
  5. I have the right to set my own priorities.
  6. I have the right to say no without feeling guilty.
  7. I have the right to ask for what I want.
  8. I have the right to get what I pay for.
  9. I have the right to ask for information from professionals.
  10. I have the right to choose not to assert myself.